Ryan McLaughlin
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Ryan McLaughlin is an American mediator and conflict resolution specialist based in St. Paul, Minnesota. He holds a Juris Doctor (JD) from the University of Wyoming College of Law and an MFA in Creative Writing from Georgia College and Stat...... Show More
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Can I get a witness?I hope not to need one, but if I do, I’m subpoenaing Ryan.Our strategic reset session was a literal god(ess)send during the absolute worst point in my life. Thinking about filing for marital dissolution? Do everything you...
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Ryan was great to work with. He made the process easy to understand and kept the process moving forward in a positive way. I would recommend him to anyone that is considering using the mediation vs lawyers.
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May 15th, 2026 02:28 PM
Kathryn, thank you. In my experience, clarity-driven-conversation/process moves people forward faster than pressure ever will. Glad you felt that.
Mediation - It works even if you are unsure what you really want or how to get there.Opening a dialogue through a neutral party was the furthest thing from my mind to begin, but it was the right thing for our situation.I like to talk & think....
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May 15th, 2026 02:23 PM
Bill, thank you! A lot of people arrive at mediation unsure — and that uncertainty is actually a good starting point. The process creates space to think and talk, and you did both. Grateful you trusted the process. 🙏
I’m grateful for the mediation support Ryan provided. The process was quick and straightforward, and his calm, approachable presence made a stressful situation feel less overwhelming. He kept us steady and comfortable during a time that’s hard...
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May 15th, 2026 02:24 PM
Thank you for this, Mia! Keeping things calm and moving forward — that's the whole goal. I'm glad the process felt manageable. Wishing you both well!
Flannel People Mediation it's a good choice if you going try difficult time. They will help you to get to the agreement if both parties wanted.
That was a good choice for me.
Thanks Ryan.
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May 15th, 2026 02:25 PM
Thank you for taking the time to share this. You said it perfectly — when both people come in willing to work together, real agreements are possible. That willingness is (part of) what made our work together meaningful. Wishing you well.
Helped us think through a really tricky multi-state and complex financial situation with compassion and pragmatism! Highly recommended!
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May 15th, 2026 02:26 PM
Evan, thank you. Multi-state situations add a real layer of complexity—100%... and having a process that holds both the practical and the emotional side matters. Glad we could work through it together. Appreciate the recommendation.
Ryan was very helpful for a marriage "check-in" - not mediation in the traditional sense. I found his guidance to be very practical and thoughtful.
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April 2nd, 2026 03:40 PM
Vince, thank you — I really appreciate you sharing this. And you nailed the distinction. Not everything needs to be "mediation" in the traditional sense. Sometimes what people need is a facilitated conversation — a space to have the hard talk...
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Simple and easy way to come up with a plan and get support while preparing for a divorce. Ryan was helpful in answering questions and explaining the process and to my surprise we finished in one session and are both feeling ready to move forward!...
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March 26th, 2026 04:07 PM
Hannah, thank you so much for this. That surprise you felt about finishing in one session? I hear that a lot — and honestly, it never gets old. Most people come in bracing for something long and painful, and then they realize it doesn't have...
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Ryan is incredible and was imperative to having successful solution focused mediation. He was an anchor. He utilized a structure and made space for some emotional processing. Would recommend to anyone going through this difficult transition....
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March 26th, 2026 03:53 PM
Jessica—thank you so much for sharing this. Hearing that the structure and space made a real difference means so much — I put A LOT of care into studying and refining the mediation process so that every session can hold both the practical and...
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Ryan provided a structured, low-pressure environment to help us navigate a very difficult situation. This wasn’t traditional counseling—it was a focused, facilitated conversation that helped clarify next steps without forcing outcomes.What...
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March 25th, 2026 12:35 AM
Thank you for taking the time to share this. "Calm, direct, and productive" is exactly what I'm going for—especially when the stakes are high and emotions are real. I'm glad the process felt grounded rather than forced.For anyone reading: this...
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Ryan McLaughlin is an American mediator and conflict resolution specialist based in St. Paul, Minnesota. He holds a Juris Doctor (JD) from the University of Wyoming College of Law and an MFA in Creative Writing from Georgia College and State University. Initially an English composition instructor, Ryan transitioned to work as a family attorney, and then founded Flannel People Mediation in 2023. The service offers virtual mediation for divorcing couples, couples seeking improved communication, business partners in conflict, and families navigating end-of-life conversations.
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